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In loving memory of my darling wife Wendy Harmer ~ 18th January 1952 to 26th November 2008

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This site is dedicated in loving memory of Wend.

My darling Wend was born in Richmond, Surrey on January 18, 1952. We were married on October 21 2006. She passed away quietly and peacefully on November 26, 2008 after a 4 year battle against breast cancer.She was a wonderful wife to me, an incredible Mother to Matt and Sarah ,a loving Nana to her beloved Ethan and Joshua, and a friend to so many people. She is much loved and will always be remembered by all her friends and family. She touched so many hearts and will never be forgotten.(Click on pictures to enlarge.)

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11 years ago
Gina

Cancer is so cruel. A small donation in memory of your lovely wife Wendy. xx

£10.00 (+ £2.50 Gift Aid)
11 years ago
Ian HARMER

Merry Christmas my darling Wend...we all love and miss you (Mother Christmas) so much, especially at this time of year. God Bless you darling, your loving husband, Ian xxx

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12 years ago
Ian HARMER

In loving memory of my darling Wend, I will love you forever my darling girl. Your loving husband, Ian xxxxx

£25.00 (+ £6.25 Gift Aid)
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Our honeymoon in the Maldives October 2006 Our Wedding Day 21-10-06. A perfect day surrounded by our friends and family. My gorgeous blue-eyed girl, on our honeymoon 29th October 2006 Darkwood Beach, Antigua 2004, Paradise on earth Wends' Birthday 2006 The happiest day of our lives 21-10-06 Race for Life, Hyde Park, 4-9-05. Wend and Sarah ran for breast cancer charities Rye, West Sussex 2007. Wend had the most beautiful smile and the loveliest blue eyes. Christmas Day 2005. Mr and Mrs Claus !! Foolin' around, Leed Castle 27-8-2007. Wend was so full of life and full of fun. Our 2nd Anniversary at The Ritz, 21st October 2008 Our last holiday together in Cornwall,July 2008 Wend with Ben from X Factor, Lingfield Race Course, 2007.She was so excited to meet him ! Notre Dame, Paris, March 2006. We so loved the romance of Paris. Race for Life,Hyde Park, September 2006. Wend raised more money for The Royal Marsden in Sutton Lazy weekend at Rowhill Grange Spa, August 2007 Westerham, 9-11-08 The last photo ever taken of Wend A flowering Weeping Cherry Tree that we planted in memory of Wend, March 2009 At a Dinner/Dance 2-10-04, Wend looked stunning ! Wends' birthday meal with her loving family 18-1-2005 With our 8 week old grandson Joshua, July 2008 Nana with our 3 year old grandson Ethan, Eastbourne, July 2008. He so loved his 'silly Nana' Wend in the Race for Life, Hyde Park, 4-9-05. She always cared more about others than herself On the Downs 6-4-08. Wend absolutely loved the snow ! My beautiful bride 21-10-06. This was taken on Dartmoor 22-10-05 The Lizard, Cornwall, July 2008 Wend with Matt and Sarah on the Downs 27-12-2004. She was so proud of them both. Rye, W.Sussex 31-8-2004 - one of our favourite places In front of the Xmas Tree, Christmas 2004 Our 1st Anniversary in the Cotswolds 18th October 2007 Antigua 2004 At Chartwell 2005 My birthday 10-11-06 With Bruce and Nettie at the Reigate Manor Hotel Wend loved everything about Christmas.She should have been called Mrs Claus ! Our honeymoon in the Maldives October 2006. Wend called this 'her tree'. We were so in love.......3/9/2008 Cornwall, July 2008 With Ethan on his 2nd Birthday. Wend was such a proud, loving Nana. Pendennis Castle, Cornwall, July 2008 With Saxon on Farthing Downs 28-3-05 Ethan loved bath-time with his 'silly Nana' ! An adoring Nana with new born Ethan Nana and Grandpa with our second grandson Joshua Two hearts become one, my beautiful princess Wend, Sarah and me, Fathers' Day 15/6/08 Wend at Nelsons' Dockyard, Antigua 29/5/2004 Wend at Boscastle, Cornwall 16/7/2006 Wend and her best friend Marlene at Headcorn, Kent 13/8/2005 Us at Battle Abbey, Hastings 1/4/2007 Wend and Saxon in Happy Valley 28/3/2007 Wend in paradise. Our honeymoon in the Maldives 1/11/2006 Our Honeymoon on Vakarufalhi 27/10/2006 Dinner on the beach under the stars on our honeymoon in the Maldives 27/10/2006 Island Girl on Vakarufalhi,our honeymoon 31/10/2006 Our first dance at our wedding on 21/10/06 to 'Amazed' by Lonestar Wend and I with Matt and Sarah.A lovely picture. Ethan loved to sit on Nana's lap and have a story read to him. Wernd and Sarah. Not just Mother and daughter,but best friends. Wend on the pier at Vakarufahli on our honeymoon 30/10/2006 At Kevs' wedding 3/7/2004 Sunset in the Maldives 10/2006 The Lizard Point, Cornwall 16/7/2008 Fathers' Day 15/6/08 Inn on the Pond, Nutfield Ethan loved to sit on Nanas' lap whilst she read to him.13/3/2006 Ethans' 2nd Birthday Party 1/7/2007. Nana was so proud of him. Helford River, Cornwall, 13/7/08. Wend loved Cornwall. Lanhydrock House, Cornwall. 21/7/08 Bruges 12/9/09 The Lizard Point, Cornwall 16-7-2008 I loved her so much Boat ride on Thames at Hampton Court 8/9/04 Wendy and VW Girls friendship of over 30 years Fooling around at Brighton 27/12/2005 Bathtime for Ethan with Nana 6/8/2006 Taken on our 2nd Anniversary trip to The Ritz in London 21-10-2008 Epsom Racecourse 5=9=2007 Flora Light Hyde Park 5-9-2004 Halloween Fun 31-10-2007 My Birthday 10-11-2006 On one of our famous 5 mile walks ! 19/3/08 Taken at Rye, Sussex on top of the Church Tower 14/10/2007 Mum and Wend, The Anglers Hotel, Egham,11th July 2004 Mrs Claus. Christmas Day 2004 Brighton, New Years Eve 2006 Wends' Birthday 18-1-2007 Snowy walk on the Downs 6-4-2008 Day out with Ethan on The Bluebell Railway 23-9-2007 A breezy day in Brighton 22/6/2008 Wend and Sarah on our Wedding Day 21-10-06 Nana with Joshua at 2 days old 10/5/08 On return from our honeymoon 6/11/2006 Nana, Grandpa and Ethan 14/07/2007 With Marlene, Wimbledon, June 22nd 2008 Nana and Ethan making 'cracklets' 31-8-2008 Baking with Nana 31-8-2008 Wend and Saxon at 'her bench', where she now rests forever. Wend and Mum, River Thames, 11-7-04 Couple2 Quick Draft Just back from honeymoon 6-11-2006 Matching Wedding Rings. Our Wedding Day 21-10-06 Bamburgh Head Castle 15-5-2004 Wend and me,my birthday 10-11-2007 IMG 0459 Tulleys Farm 1-11-2007, Wend loved carousels Epsom Racecourse 5-9-07 Christmas Day Dinner 25-12-2005 3-1-2005 A warming cuppa in Eastbourne Wends' 56th Birthday, 18th January 2008 Our Wedding Day 211-10-2006 the happiest day of my life Rye, W.Sussex 14th October 2007 Mother's Day lunch at the Anglers Wakehurst Place, Easter 28-3-2004 Our Wedding Day 21-10-06, the happiest day of our lives Matt's 30th Birthday 23-9-2007 Galley Bay, Antigua 5-6-2004 Wakefield Place 28-4-2004 Hyde Park Race for Life 16-9-2007 1-11-2006 Vakaru, Honeymoon in Maldives Wend and Saxon at 'her bench' 28-3-2005 My 56th birthday 10-11-2007 Wend & Marlene @ Wimbledon 23-6-08 Christmas Day 2005 Windy Eastbourne 3/1/2005 My Beautiful Princess 2-10-2004 My beautiful Wend Bewl Water 27-8-2007 Vakaru, Maldives 3rd November 2006 Mum & Wend, Our Wedding Day 21-10-2006 With Nancy on our wedding day 21-10-06 Bamburgh Head Castle 15-5-2004 Wend's last birthday meal with us - 18-1-2007 Sarah, Wend and I, Rye 2008 Farthing Downs 6/4/08 Our first dance on our wedding day to 'Amazed' by Lonestar 15-9-08 Penshurst Place. Christmas 2006, 'Mrs Christmas' and Ian Bamburgh Castle, Northumberland 15-5-2004 Bewl Water, Sussex 27-8-07 Scotney Castle 15th September 2008 I remember yesterday Christmas 2005 9th May 2007 Scotney Castle Antigua 25-5-2004 The happiest day of my life 21st October 2006 A cherished heart never to be forgotten ,sleep gently lovely girl 380xNxgrief quotes 20.jpg.pagespeed.ic.8aY5Vks 5s Mr and Mrs Christmas Christmas 2007 17-7-08 Cornwall Paris 19th March 2006 be57df1faae892a6f76bf914e069bca6 Christmas 2005 Ian and Wend at Bewl Water For my lovely Valentine XXX Christmas In Loving Memory Cards When I get to Heaven For my darling Wend. XXX 12485813 10153855151229935 1908841358985924201 o 75
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Another birthday my dear friend Always miss you I do not pretend Passed away in 2008 Going through that pearly gate Will be thinking of you on the 18th as always. xx
Marlene
17th January 2024
Always remembered my lovely friend. Never forgotten. OB xxxx
Annette Harmath
26th November 2023
Another year since you left us Wendy. As said over the past fifteen years of you being gone from my life, I think of you all of the time especially when a song comes on the radio, Wimbledon Ballot time, birthdays, anniversarys a constant reminder of all the good times we had together over the many years we knew each other. We were there for each other through the highs and lows, thick and thin, and now I do the same for your dear family. Miss you lots. Love Marlene xx
26th November 2023
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Happy Birthday sweetheart. I'll never forget you darling. XXX
Lit by Ian on 18th January 2024
The years without these precious souls just fly past ,but the many quiet nights bring them back to our mind as we cry for all the time they never got..They live in our hearts each and every day and I believe the sadness will never leave ...God bless Wendy we remeber you . IAN HAMILTON
Lit by IAN HAMILTON DAD TO CHERYL, AND HUSBAND TO MARION MY LOVES MY LIFE. on 26th November 2023
Always in my heart and thoughts Wend. XXX
Lit by Ian on 26th November 2023
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