Hello Wend and Ian, I posted this on my John's site and thought it was so appropriate knowing the love you had for each other. On the day that we were married they told us we were one, No-one told us what to do,when the other one has gone. What do you do with half a heart and half a will to care, What do you do with half a life,when the other half's not there. You were the other half of me, a heart linked with my own, What do I do with half a life,now that I'm on my own. Like you Ian , I now feel like I only have half a life. Take care xx