A beautiful tribute Ian to your darling Wend - it made me cry and Im so sorry that you didnt have many years together to enjoy. You obviously found that SPECIAL LOVE so few have. John and I had 46 years of marriage -all happy and special. Your choice of music is similar to mine - You Raise Me Up was one of the songs played at Johns funeral and To Where You Are is one of the songs on Johns tribute and a favourite of mine. Take care of yourself and take time to grieve - theres no set time - Im 6 months further down the line than you and still hurt so much. Live those beautiful memories of the times you and Wend spent together.